Lolita and Eroticism.

First things First!

Lolita is not a sexual fashion! Just like hipsterism is not a sexual fashion. However, just like any fashion out there some people do have a fetish for it, I.E. I have a fetish for suits, and uniforms. 

Now addressing Erololita

Erololita has many many many, shapes and forms, My personal favorite, which comprises of the lolita undergarments can be seen at the top of this blog. You can wear any sub-style of lolita while dressing in Erololita. While normally Erololita is more skimpy than regular Lolita, some may find the full Lolita outfit arousing. It all really is based on taste. 

The Other Side of Things

Those who are not a part of the Lolita community, often mistake Lolita for age play. First off I'd like to say, isn't the fashion girls 12-18 are dressing in age play if this is true? Seriously they're dressing like 22 year old party girls, so if Lolita is age play so is regular fashion. Ok yes, Lolita for some is age play, but the same can be said of the catholic school girl uniforms. I wear Lolita because it's pretty, I like the way it looks, not because I get some sexual kick out of it. Yes the corsets, bloomers, and petticoats are sexy to me, but so is regular lingerie. Lolita undergarments are just that Lingerie for under Lolita clothing, panties are sexy always, but what we wear over them is not necessarily so.

My point is, just because some people are into it sexually, does not mean it is a sexual fashion. So do not judge Lolitas because of the few with kinks.